与主叹啡:2025年8月18日

常年期第廿周星期一
福音:玛19:16-22
我们把我们得到的拿出施舍

在生活中,我们常常想要知道:痛苦,不安或悲伤,为何会时常伴随我们。然而,我想问你的是:你给了过别人什么?我们要把我们得到的拿去施舍。如果你种下和平,就会收获和平。如果你种下苦涩,就不要指望绽放出喜乐。你的行为离不开你的内心,它显露出你的心志。因此,让我们从疗愈我们的内心开始。一颗平和的心,会给家庭,工作场所,甚至会给教会带来和平。

我们常常把信仰简化成道德清单:“我犯罪了吗?我有没有犯罪?”诚然,道德很重要,道德像天主十诫一样,指引我们前行的道路。信仰与关系休戚相关。这与那与我们相遇的,爱我们,召叫我们走向自由的的耶稣相关。没有爱,没有快乐,没有慷慨的信德,是枯燥的,是沉重的负担。

在福音经文中,那富有的少年,忧愁地离开 —— 不是因为耶稣拒绝他,而是因为他无法放手。他牢牢抓住那能给他安全感,而不能给他生命的一切。我们也这样做。我们执着于财产,执着于骄傲和安逸,这些东西能麻痹我们,但无法使我们得到满足。它们把我们压得喘不过气来。

追随基督,就要施舍,就是要放下,就是要信赖。不是因为天主想要从我们这里拿走什么,而是因为祂想要多多赏赐我们,使我们更自由,更喜乐,更接近天乡。

因此,今天,诚挚省察你的生活。是什么令你执着,让你找不到天主?你必须释放多大的压力,才能使你飞得更高?

不要害怕。施舍要自愿。爱要深沉,原谅要慷慨。这样,你就会发现:你的施舍会给你带来回报,连按带摇,以致外溢的恩典。

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Coffee with God:August 18, 2025

Monday of the Twentieth Week in Ordinary Time
Matthew 19:16-22
We Receive What We Give


In life, we often wonder why bitterness, restlessness, or sadness follow us. But let me ask you—what are you giving to others? We receive what we give. If you plant peace, you will reap peace. If you sow bitterness, you cannot expect joy to blossom. Your actions are not separate from your heart—they reveal it. So, let us begin by healing what we carry within. A peaceful heart will bring peace to the family, the workplace, even the Church.


Too often, we reduce faith to moral checklists: “Did I sin? Did I not?” Yes, morality is important—it guides us, like the Ten Commandments, small lights on our journey. But faith is not only about rules. Faith is about relationship. It is about encountering Jesus, who loves us and calls us to freedom. A faith without love, without joy, without generosity, is dry and burdensome.


The rich young man in the Gospel walked away sad—not because Jesus rejected him, but because he couldn’t let go. He clung to things that gave him security, but not life. And we do the same. We hold on to possessions, to pride, to comforts that numb us but do not satisfy. They weigh us down.


To follow Jesus is to give, to let go, to trust. Not because God wants to take things from us, but because He wants to give us more—more freedom, more joy, more heaven.


So today, examine your life with sincerity. What are you holding on to that does not lead you to God? What weight must you release to fly higher?


Don’t be afraid. Give freely. Love deeply. Forgive generously. And you will discover: what you give is what returns to you—pressed down, shaken together, and overflowing with grace.

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